The Heart of Ted Lasso: A Compassionate Exploration of Mental Health
Composition WR 121 F24 Final
Excited to share my well-received final paper for WR 121Z Composition - my professor said,
'Really enjoyed all of your writing this term. This show (Ted Lasso) seems to have single-handedly changed the landscape of television and stands out amidst a sea of shows focused on miserable characters with biting dialogue. Loved reading your essay!'
Spoiler Alert! If you have yet to watch Ted Lasso, consider watching the entire series before diving into this! Just kidding…unless you want to skip the inspiring moments!
Ted Lasso is a masterpiece that balances humor and heart to show a realistic and empathetic portrayal of mental health issues, emphasizing the importance of seeking help, encouraging open conversations, and understanding the shame associated with mental health struggles. In the world of modern television, Ted Lasso has found a unique place as a sports comedy that intricately explores the complexities of mental health. Created by Bill Lawrence, Jason Sudeikis, Joe Kelly, and Brendan Hunt, the series follows an American football coach who takes on the leadership of a struggling association football team. Beneath its excellent comedy, the show addresses deep concepts, particularly mental health, providing viewers with a narrative that is both hilariously entertaining and profoundly impactful. By normalizing mental health discussions, the show reassures the audience that their struggles are understood and can be openly addressed.
Ted Lasso, brilliantly portrayed by Jason Sudeikis, is the heart and soul of the series. His relentless optimism and genuine kindness initially come across as almost cartoon-like; however, as the series progresses, layers of his character are gradually revealed, exposing deeper personal struggles. Ted's battle with anxiety and panic attacks is shown with a level of realism that is often absent in mainstream television. A significant moment occurs in Season 2 when Ted experiences an intense panic attack during a critical match, bringing his mental health struggles to light. This scene is pivotal, as it humanizes Ted and reminds him and the audience that even the most cheerful individuals can face deep challenges. The show's portrayal of mental health struggles validates the audience's own experiences and empathizes with their journey.
The show's creators have consciously tried to portray mental health issues authentically. For instance, Ted's interactions with his fantastic therapist, Dr. Sharon Fieldstone (played by Sarah Niles), are depicted with a refreshing honesty. Their sessions are not just plot devices but essential to Ted's character development. As noted by Gary Drevitch in Psychology Today, Ted's depiction of panic attacks is both compassionate and accurate, illustrating the importance of seeking help and the reality of mental health struggles (Drevitch). The dialogue during these sessions often reflects realtherapeutic conversations, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability and the therapeutic process.
Ted's experiences are portrayed with sensitivity and authenticity, making them relatable to viewers who may have faced similar challenges. The show does not avoid the discomfort associated with mental health issues. Instead, it offers a fine portrayal that includes Ted courageously seeking therapy, an incredible step in his journey. As Katie MacBride notes in Inverse, Ted's initial skepticism of therapy reflects a common perspective. Still, the show ultimately demonstrates that seeking professional help is a vital part of addressing mental health struggles (MacBride). By showing our beloved character undergoing therapy, the series helps to normalize the process and encourages viewers to consider seeking help if they need it, which is extremely important.
The show's approach to mental health has resonated deeply with its audience and myself. Many fans have shared personal stories online about how Ted Lasso has helped them navigate their own mental health challenges. For example, social media platforms are filled with testimonials from viewers who credit the show with providing them comfort during difficult times. By accepting these mental health themes, the show highlights its potential to influence society's attitudes toward mental health. The series promotes a message of hope and recovery by showing Ted's vulnerability and his path to seeking help.
The show emphasizes the significance of community and support systems in mental health recovery. Ted's relationships with his team members, particularly with players like Sam Obisanya (Toheeb Jimoh) and Jamie Tartt (Phil Dunster), illustrate how fellowship can be crucial in overcoming personal struggles. In one memorable episode, Ted organizes a team bonding activity that encourages open communication and trust among the players. This scene shows us that mental health is not only an individual journey; it is often part of the support we receive from those around us. As noted by Ekua Hagan in Psychology Today, Ted's approach to kindness and emotional connection serves as a powerful coping mechanism, demonstrating that small acts of kindness can have a profound impact on mental health and well-being (Hagan).
Ted Lasso also delves into the mental health struggles of other characters, such as Rebecca Welton (Hannah Waddingham) and Nathan Shelley (Nick Mohammed). Rebecca's journey of overcoming a toxic relationship and Nathan's battle with self-esteem issues add depth to the show's exploration of mental health. Rebecca's character arc is captivating as she transitions from a woman seeking revenge against her ex-husband to someone learning to embrace her worth. Her journey shows us the importance of self-acceptance and the effects of emotional healing.
Nathan's character also provides a realistic exploration of mental health. Initially portrayed as a timid kit man, Nathan's rise to a coaching position brings to light his struggles with self-esteem and the pressure to prove himself. His journey reflects the internal battles many face to assert their identity in an overly competitive environment. The show does an excellent job of portraying Nathan's vulnerabilities, especially when he struggles with feelings of inadequacy.
One of the most remarkable aspects of Ted Lasso is his adept use of comedy as a tool for discussing serious issues. The show skillfully balances hilarious moments with deep reflections on mental health, creating a space where viewers can laugh while engaging with the deep themes. For instance, Ted's classic one-liners and lighthearted banter often serve as a coping mechanism for him and the characters around him. This use of comedy makes the show highly enjoyable. It allows for an approachable discussion of mental health topics, keeping the audience engaged and entertained.
In one memorable moment from Ted Lasso, Ted interacts with Rebecca about the biscuits he brings her daily. When Rebecca suggests that he could be more efficient or use shortcuts, Ted playfully responds, "If I did that, I wouldn't be able to bring you more on Monday, would I?" (Ted Lasso). Here, Ted refers to his homemade biscuits, not simply the task. His comment emphasizes the importance of bringing her the biscuits as a gesture of goodwill and connection rather than just focusing on the end result.
Despite Rebecca's attempts to deflect or downplay the situation, Ted remains cheerfully oblivious to her underlying tension and insecurities. By responding with a lighthearted quip, he cleverly steers the conversation into a more playful territory, using humor to bond with her. This moment highlights Ted's unique ability to combine humor with sincerity, inviting a deeper connection while avoiding her hesitation and awkwardness. In doing so, he subtly encourages Rebecca—and the audience—to appreciate the little things that matter in relationships, making it clear that his intention is to promote positivity, even during her uncertainties.
One of the most significant impacts of Ted Lasso is its role in deconstructing the shame surrounding mental health. The show encourages open conversations about mental well-being, which is vital in a society where mental health is often shamed. By showing us characters who openly discuss their struggles and seek professional help, Ted Lasso enables a more accepting and supportive environment for viewers. This is evident in how Ted interacts with his team and colleagues, often normalizing feelings and mental health discussions.
For example, in a touching scene, Ted shares his own experiences with anxiety with Dr. Sharon Fieldstone, breaking down barriers and encouraging them to be open about their own struggles. He says, "I've been having them from time to time as of late, and I'm working on it. But I just want you all to know the truth" (Ted Lasso). This moment strengthens the bond between Ted and Dr. Sharon and sends a strong message to the audience: it is OK to talk about mental health. By showing us these conversations as a natural part of life, the show contributes to a cultural shift toward greater acceptance and understanding of mental health issues.
Ted Lasso stands out as a television series that transcends mere entertainment to address critical mental health issues with empathy and realism. The show's depiction of Ted's anxiety and his journey toward seeking help is impactful and inspiring. By breaking down the shame surrounding mental health and encouraging open conversations, Ted Lassoprovides a valuable narrative that resonates with viewers and contributes to a broader understanding of mental well-being. The series serves as a reminder that it is OK to struggle and, more importantly, it is OK to seek help.
Works Cited
Ted Lasso. "Biscuits." Apple TV+, Season 1, Episode 2, 2020.
Ted Lasso. "Man City." Apple TV+, Season 2, Episode 8, 2021.
Drevitch, Gary. "5 Things' Ted Lasso' Got Right About Mental Health." Psychology Today, 23 May 2024, www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/beyond-mental-health/202405/5-things-ted-lasso-got-right-about-mental-health.
MacBride, Katie. "The Ted Lasso Effect: Don't Panic." Inverse, 20 Feb. 2024, www.inverse.com/mind-body/ted-lasso-therapy-mental-health.
Hagan, Ekua. "The Ted Lasso Prescription: Was This Show Created in a Happiness Lab?" Psychology Today, 22 Oct. 2021, www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-carpe-diem-project/202110/the-ted-lasso-prescription.
Such a thoughtful perspective on the show! I especially love your observation about using comedy as a tool for engaging with serious issues; sharply observed. Thanks for sharing this, “I appreciate you!” 😉
I love this show for so many reasons, only one of which is because I always date younger men, and Rebecca's story made me feel better about that.
Found you from Paolo's recommendation. I'm looking forward to reading more!